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" you say words you can't take back
they used to be so . . .
now it's words hard to look at
so hard to look at with the lights on "
Sometimes a high wall is just a wall
Sometimes it’s only there to make sure you feel small
Or may be there to save you from the depths of a much deeper fall
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True love is the same. Like a tree, when a storm comes it will lose flowers, leaves, even branches but as long as its roots are in the ground, there is still hope that it will survive and some day bloom again
what a rare specie you are : )
true though .
i've seen it .
nobody called me this way so far...but it would be kind of strange not to believe in what you feel
Don't get me wrong, I do not believe that enchantment is eternal as it is only the very beginning of love.
Unfortunately my impression is,that people nowadays want this 'prelude' to last forever in their relationships while it's impossible. So when the 'magic' disappears many of them decide to part...
Who believe in such prelude kind .
But I did , once and so all my friends back then .
This got less complicated .
We prioritize other things now.
Such as someone who will actually takes care of us ,
Be faithful . Respectful and understanding .
Cause we all come with too much weight to carry by ourselves.
Those drama kind got old .
I would risk the claim that some people never grow up enough to take care of others as they enjoy living without rsponsibilities too much.
The priorities you mention are very important for me since I was in highschool. Then I have met the person I share my life with.
Lately I had a weird situation.. some acquaintance of my friend asked me (of his pure curiosity) how long I am in a relationship... when he heard 'over 8 years' he asked why I have 'chained myself in the best time when I could enjoy life'. I felt strange to hear that because I have been really enjoying my life, of course there were also hardships, but I never thought of my relationship as about some 'chain'. Being faithful, respectful and understanding for the one I share my life with, just comes naturally, but for some other people these are just empty words.
As I listen to You I feel much respect for you and your culture. You are proud of your family and know what really matters in life, the support we give and receive in return from others.
On the contrary, in the country I live in, the first place takes career, money, connections... family and values seem to fade away and this is not a good phenomenon...
I hope You don't mind posting here one of my favourite quotes:
''A career is wonderful thing, but you can't snuggle up to it on a cold night.''
You can be free or be chained as he says ,
But whatever is your situation ,
There's always harder times as well.
Specially in a cold night.
Just do it because you believe is the best for you.
Not because people will judge or eye-roll
Your relationship status .
I don't even know why am I saying this cause,
Lets face it .You already know that very well.
I can tell this much.
Career is to fulfill a lack of other things ,
We do this a lot ,some people do this all their lives.
Some just don't at all . Maybe a statement ,perhaps .
Idk,but I will tell you this:
A friend once told me .
The best thing is when you feel like you are
Flying ,but you are not .
And people can buy planes and go to the moon.
But it's only worth it when you notice that the best person
You know is right beside you , and you are both flying ,
And touch something so amazingly beautiful that
It's invisible to the eyes , harmless to your soul ,
Priceless to any money and ,
Fulfilling to our lives by the seconds we live in this state .
And there's a word for it even :
L o v e .
Pretty simple , But it's not really.
Not at all.