So i was going to write only in my journal about this but , it seems that it might also be good for someone else out there (m e) . And it's been a long time since i don't open any of my personal thoughts in anywhere other than my journal . This is something new to write about cause , there is this movie called "liberal arts" . Which i saw last night , and now i keep on replaying it on my head , and all the dialogs . it's like seen " before the sunrise" with a new age line of thought, although , thoughts ,good ones, they never get old .
Jesse have a huge dilema in his life , cause for the first time , he found someone who he really connect, Zibby ,the connection girl who i am speaking about , became his pen pals talking among letters and hand-writing is such a nice thing ( don't you think? ) i am not going to spoil the movie ,but in certain time , they came to a momentum in this relationship where she says to him, that he is one of those guys how like to dislike and to be proud about what he doesn't like . i mean . . who doesn't do that in real life ? you can pretend all you want and hide behind your fucking masks but, still , people are proud to say what they don't like these days . people like to be the ones that show personality for what they don't like , for having strong opinions about things , and as she said , why can we just talk about all the things we love and just respect the rest.
See , this movie slap me cause , since yesterday ,maybe even now , i talk so much about the things that i don't like . And i feel connected to people who shares the same thoughts .
Right , mostly i feel connected to people who share the same music taste , book taste , artist in general , those things . . .
but see , we all have this side which is unbearable to even think to live with someone who likes for example "the twilight saga" . (it's just and example) a fine one may i say , see ! just right now , i am pointing out that i don't like it , even thought , truth be told , i read the "new moon" chapter , and it was very well written and i felt Bella's pain , cause i've been there. And i guess by now , a lot of you have been in as well, sort of . But today they have this view that we have teams , the ones who likes it , and the ones who doesn't . There is no place for respect , to be whatever about the thing .
So i am missing somehow my point in here , but getting back to where i was , Don't be proud of your dislikes , don't spend too much time hating things . Don't turn out to be the one who is known and respected for what you don't . Be the one respected and admired by the DO .
this will make so much sense some other day , just think about it . To who it may concern , i am sincerely saying i have no one in my mind right now . I was at first but then ,i saw myself in there and i was disgusted by what i saw .
For the movie , life will tear us all apart , it's just part of the process of learning. Get used to . It doesn't mean in the end things will be alright . It does not mean it will not be neither . Things will just goes as it is , and if you can keep up , You may write a good ending to your story .
Cause this is all we are ,all we will be someday , a story for someone to tell . Or kids , friends , siblings . bffs and whatever have you .
If you in any case have no one . there's plenty of time to find someone to bother and to share . Don't hurry to much , life will catch us all eventually .
Beautiful photo, I love the vibrancy of the colours!
You've got a point. We should all accept our differences. Think about it -- how boring life would be if we all had the same tastes! I also think that differences help strengthen relationships, sometimes. Differences teach tolerance and acceptance of the other person's uniqueness.
It seems as thought there are others that agree with me. Why don't you start a group to share some of this wisdom. With every uploaded photo there must be some kind of wisdom attached in the description.
Wow a beautiful art piece and such words of wisodm. I don't think that I have ever thought of that before. If we constantly define ourselves by what we don't like then we will exclude so many people and things from ourselves. Thank you for sharing this. Most people don't but I'm glad you did. Thank you.
beautiful.. the picture and the words of wisdom. It took me years to learn I didn't have to "fit in," that maybe there was more to life than being in a relationship, or having friends just because it felt wrong not to have a group to run with. And I had to learn it again and again. But I've finally found a place in life that suits me, and to my surprise, have met someone that I can be me around, and who respects that about me. I'm so glad you wrote this, because it's a strong desire of mine to spread this kind of wisdom to others who have not yet discovered it, to help them see that it's okay if you don't know who you are... Just find peace inside, and don't dwell on the negative, like you said, focus on the positive, and overall, life will become a pleasant place no matter what the situation.
Thank you for sharing, and surprisingly, I actually needed to hear something like this for how things are going in my life at the moment. I am so grateful to have run across your breath-taking photograph. Fantastic colors!
truth be told ,i never saw a camera capture the true color of the momiji season .They are so much more beautiful in life . It's a shame any camera be able to capture the red colors and shades like it is . i am sure i will have a lot of angry notes for saying this .