So i was going to write only in my journal about this but , it seems that it might also be good for someone else out there (m e) . And it's been a long time since i don't open any of my personal thoughts in anywhere other than my journal . This is something new to write about cause , there is this movie called "liberal arts" . Which i saw last night , and now i keep on replaying it on my head , and all the dialogs . it's like seen " before the sunrise" with a new age line of thought, although , thoughts ,good ones, they never get old .
Jesse have a huge dilema in his life , cause for the first time , he found someone who he really connect, Zibby ,the connection girl who i am speaking about , became his pen pals talking among letters and hand-writing is such a nice thing ( don't you think? ) i am not going to spoil the movie ,but in certain time , they came to a momentum in this relationship where she says to him, that he is one of those guys how like to dislike and to be proud about what he doesn't like . i mean . . who doesn't do that in real life ? you can pretend all you want and hide behind your fucking masks but, still , people are proud to say what they don't like these days . people like to be the ones that show personality for what they don't like , for having strong opinions about things , and as she said , why can we just talk about all the things we love and just respect the rest.
See , this movie slap me cause , since yesterday ,maybe even now , i talk so much about the things that i don't like . And i feel connected to people who shares the same thoughts .
Right , mostly i feel connected to people who share the same music taste , book taste , artist in general , those things . . .
but see , we all have this side which is unbearable to even think to live with someone who likes for example "the twilight saga" . (it's just and example) a fine one may i say , see ! just right now , i am pointing out that i don't like it , even thought , truth be told , i read the "new moon" chapter , and it was very well written and i felt Bella's pain , cause i've been there. And i guess by now , a lot of you have been in as well, sort of . But today they have this view that we have teams , the ones who likes it , and the ones who doesn't . There is no place for respect , to be whatever about the thing .
So i am missing somehow my point in here , but getting back to where i was , Don't be proud of your dislikes , don't spend too much time hating things . Don't turn out to be the one who is known and respected for what you don't . Be the one respected and admired by the DO .
this will make so much sense some other day , just think about it . To who it may concern , i am sincerely saying i have no one in my mind right now . I was at first but then ,i saw myself in there and i was disgusted by what i saw .
For the movie , life will tear us all apart , it's just part of the process of learning. Get used to . It doesn't mean in the end things will be alright . It does not mean it will not be neither . Things will just goes as it is , and if you can keep up , You may write a good ending to your story .
Cause this is all we are ,all we will be someday , a story for someone to tell . Or kids , friends , siblings . bffs and whatever have you .
If you in any case have no one . there's plenty of time to find someone to bother and to share . Don't hurry to much , life will catch us all eventually .
Beautiful photo, I love the vibrancy of the colours!
You've got a point. We should all accept our differences. Think about it -- how boring life would be if we all had the same tastes! I also think that differences help strengthen relationships, sometimes. Differences teach tolerance and acceptance of the other person's uniqueness.