I don't think that we should feel guilty if we don't reciprocate to the action if it doesn't have any meaning behind it. The world today takes for granted the words "I love you" and "I can't live without you", when they really should mean something when we say them. It is sad, really. But aside from that, I really appreciate the effort you put into this all; Beautiful as always!!!
i think it's only because people believe they can let themselves feel hurt and even angry over the fact that the other person is only telling the truth . turning things the other way around . making them being the one who doesn't want the relationship anymore . it's a matter of proud . silliness . by this i mean , they think that if the person doesn't love them back as the same or ,actually can live without them . So now they can peace their minds believing that it didn't happen because they don't want to ,they are in control of the relationship . and they are the ones who break up and got mad about .
i guess you know what i mean .
maybe we all have done that , i know i felt like i could and it would make me better somehow , although i didn't do it . i am better letting people doing what they believe is right and, just accepting that most of the time , i am just wrong . and if someone doesn't love me that same way back , i am fine with it . there is no "same way back" to begin with .
and i am just glad for the feeling i had /or have . cause feeling love is nice and , as hurtful as it can be , no one should live and not knowing how it is like . even the broken heart kind .
no one should say things they don't mean it . even if it will break others apart .
I agree, especially how just because we know that if you let someone love you (and you love back) it will eventually cause heartbreak; but it is worth it. It is "better to have loved and lost, than never loved at all". But we shouldn't try to cause the heartache just because we know it is coming, in sense hurt them before they can hurt you. So we really should think about our words before we blurt them out, because sometimes we hurt people without realizing until it is too late... I hope you understand what I mean, it is confusing even to me